Bob,
Let me share a little story with you and maybe you can grasp better where I am coming from.
My brother used to drive for our local conference. One very high up in the conference cheated him out of a much needed amount of money.
This same man had been guest speaker at our church. The topic was temperance with a lot of "Thou Shalt Not's" concerning what we could eat.
I will give the guy credit, was a incredible speaker. You almost wanted to run home and get rid of the evils in your kitchen.
The Mon following that sabbath my brother took me to lunch. It was poor timing where the conference elite were concerned.
As we were waiting for the hostess to seat us, who should be a few short tables away. Imagine our surprise when we saw our recent guest speaker at a table with others, On that table was a full pot of coffee,on the plate biggest surprise of all. a remains of hefty sized T-Bone. Followed by a very yummy good looking cream pie with lots of cream,and I might add a very red face,with difficulty looking us in the eye.
What his eating habits are now I have no idea ,I do know he has never attempted to make that financial dealing straight. Obviously had he, my brother would have told me. He is still a highly(undeservingly so IMO) respected and well known denominational leader.
This and his actions was as wrong as it could be,has never been made right,yet some people think he is the greatest since Moses.
With what I know for a fact and has not been made right, do I continue to dog this man's steps or accept the fact that I do not control his life or what he really is?
I can go from church to church,or forum to forum and keep repeating this and then what?