This post should probably be in another thread by itself, maybe entitled, "Danny and Linda's Divorce Symbolic?" But I cannot work out how to start a new thread
, so - here goes.
I hate divorce. We know God hates divorce, especially among professing Christians, most especially among professing Seventh-day Adventists, extra-specially when it involves high profile leaders in God’s remnant church. Divorce is ugly. It tends to kill Christian love. It pushes two persons who under God have pledged to become one, to a bitter and often frantic fight to prove the guilt of the other party, in order to justify their right to do what they have done, and to remarry. It goes further and pushes others to take sides.
I furthermore hate it when professing, Bible-believing Christians, most especially professing Seventh-day Adventists, most extra-specially prominent leaders in God’s work, take each other to court. It does the same thing as the action of divorce. It breaks the flow of Christian love, trust and forgiveness and pushes into fight mode persons who at baptism pledged to die to self, love Him supremely and all others unselfishly. When believers try to settle their differences in the courts of this world, actions that are otherwise readily recognized and condemned as being against God’s law of love, tend to be justified even by Christians, even Seventh-day Adventist Christians.
The Bible forbids Christians to take each other to court.
I hate this whole warfare that has been launched by the divorce of Danny and Linda Shelton. I specially hate this warfare now that it has been committed more or less to the management of the courts of the world.
In the history of Seventh-day Adventism, has there been a divorce attracting more publicity? I don’t think so. Providence has permitted this development. Why? Could one reason be that there are aspects of this divorce that are symbolic of the larger warfare into which God’s people are being plunged? “The Revelation was not written without tears; neither without tears will it be understood.” Benson. But the prophecies of Revelation show that it is those who “keep the commandments of God, and have the testimony of Jesus Christ,” who are the winners in the end.
In Bible times God as Master Teacher often used a person’s name or actions to symbolize a bigger happening or truth. He is the same Master Teacher today. Maybe modern Israel, as Israel of old, should be studying the symbolic significance of a husband and wife, and the possible symbolic meaning of this highly publicized divorce between Danny and Linda.
In a dispute no Christians called to mediate are worth their salt unless they can exercise compassion towards all parties concerned.
I have many persons and issues on my prayer list. I myself have reason to covet the prayers of the saints. I have been informed that my health condition is such that I may only have a few months to live. But we serve a living God. What a comfort and hope! Our prayers do not fall upon deaf or impotent ears. They will be heard and answered. “When a man breathes an intensely earnest prayer to God…, there is in that intensity and earnestness a pledge from God that He is about to answer that prayer exceedingly abundantly, above all that we can ask or think.” Ellen White,
The Gospel Herald, May 28, 1902.
This ugly 3ABN debacle is one matter on my prayer list. I am not able and do not feel called to become too closely involved in the battle in which some of you are engaged. But I am praying:-
- that He will bring conviction to those who hold a key to peace with regard to this 3ABN debacle;
- that He will empower those holding these keys to come out of the woodwork and make the necessary moves;
- that He will give courage to those who are crying out because of a sincere love of the truth and the desire to
see a fair go for all parties concerned;
- that He will work the miracle needed to help Danny and Linda to truly forgive each other and become friends, to
the lesser degree possible in the changed circumstances;
- that He will minister to Brandy, in the way He knows is best;
- that He will give special grace to Bob Pickle and Gailon Arthur Joy that they might say and do only that which is
pleasing to Him, and be encouraged in this endeavour;
- that the armies of heaven will shape providences so that truth will triumph;
- that anything amiss at 3ABN might be set right, and this ministry preserved for His name’s sake;
- that those who are either knowingly or unknowing in any way warring against God, His children and work, might
be enlightened, turned around, or silenced.
I am reminded of an illustration. Somewhere someone has drawn an illustration of a bullock standing between an altar of sacrifice and a plough, with the words underneath reading, “Ready for either.” Who of us is really ready for either? Yet Jesus’ disciples are indeed called to be willing to commit to either role, even in life within the church. See Matthew 10. There have been, are, and will be, in this 3ABN debacle, as in many other church trials down through the centuries, those called to endure as maybe sacrificial lambs, and those called to work the plough. God help me, us, the church, to recognize, love and honour those called to whichever role. Words not said lightly: He will, at the last, ensure that all things work together for the good of those that love Him, and the glory of His name.
What is more important! HE’S COMING SOON!