You know Johann, after thinking about your question, I think you might be on to something.
You think about women who tend to be less inhibited and more inclined to go after what they believe no matter what unashamed of needing something outside of themselves and not worrying about how it looks, sometimes men hold back and wait (not sure what they wait for
) but need some "pushing" for a lack of a better word ( I think the women know what I mean, and probably the men too), help, encouragement, or maybe even another male to show them the way is OK to travel (step on out without the waiting and seeing part) and does not make them less of a man, weak or needy of something.
I could be wrong of course (it's always good to throw that in when talking male/female difference as to not insult either sex or insinuate a sexist bias). There is a reason we see more women at church then men, and it's not because there happen to be more females on the planet! It would be interesting to discuss our opinions of what those reasons could be?
In the age we live now, we can openly discuss, engage, embrace and learn of the differences between men and women - and these differences are a good thing (in spite of the times I wonder WHY WOULD GOD PUT MEN AND WOMEN TOGETHER
because of those differences) and I would guess that it's been an issue since the beginning of time.
One thing I have learned with really getting in there and understanding, appreciating and using these differences the way God intended (say in a marriage) is that you learn more about love and acceptance, support and respect that probably any other relationship. It's no easy thing to do, and I'm sure it's one of the top reasons marriages don't make it.
Any other ideas?