Is this the one you are referring to?
http://secretsunsealed.org/Downloads/newsletter2Q12web.pdf
Just the picture shows the biased view.
It implies that women are trying to be men.
That is a biased view.
Women can be totally feminine and still be teachers, doctors, and yes working in ministry.
Women can respect and look up to their husbands, even if they are teachers, doctors or working in ministry.
The whole argument that the church has to follow the marriage paridigm is based on "leaps of logic".
If being in ministry means a woman no longer honors and respects her husband then it also means women in all the other professions that were once reserved mainly for men, no longer honor and respect their husbands.
Eph. 5:21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto
your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as
Christ is the head of the church: and he [Christ] is the saviour of the body.
5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives be
to their own husbands in every thing.
5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Christ is the head of the church.
Husbands are the head of their own wife and kids.