Christian, you might recall that in the years leading up to the Civil War, the biggest fight was not the moral issue of slavery, but that of unity. The conservative southern states united under the Democrat party to keep the slaves in subjection. In the North the Republicans had to fight an enormous political battle against the status quo establishment who feared the liberated blacks as much as many cultures fear liberated women.
Whereas the Bible seemingly promotes and endorses slavery, much of the clergy and hierarchy of the mid nineteenth century successfully defended it from scripture, just as others are today.
160 years ago in the USA the morals of the issue were hidden behind a cloud of political and biblical verbiage meant to obscure, but in the end the moral prerogative prevailed. 160 years ago people with dark skin were inferior, today it is women.
160 years ago the fight to maintain slavery was led by white Europeans and Americans. Oddly, today the fight to free the oppressed is led by Europeans and Americans, while the vote of cultures steeped in subjugation of women, some who were once slaves, lead the fight to keep women in spiritual slavery today. And once again, the battle cry of the oppressors is unity.
But take heart Christian, Ellen White spoke out strongly against conservatives who would retard church growth. You are standing up for what you know is right, and in the end right will prevail, as the Bible and SOP predict. However, they also predict that the majority would first fall away.