In the folloowing quote, Stan made an important point to which I will respond:
I support the principal of EO, the opinion of those involved have said her book was not as truthful in many areas as she claimed.
The Merikay case was a complex case in which each of the parties to the litigation had partial knowledge and none of them had the entire view of everything that happened. In addition, as humans, all parties, with the passage of time, became dependent upon faulty memory. From this perspective, the perceptions of all parties is subject both truth and error.
The attornies attached to the case, due to requirements to keep confidential certain information, can only provide partial information. Parties on each side lack information as to what is going on with the other side. They can speculate. They can base opinions on what is presented in court, but all of that is partial truth. The book that Merikay wrote, which I have, but have not read in years, only presents a partial truth as is the situation with those on the other side. The total truth is probably greater than the sum of the declarations of each side as neither is able to reveal everyting or knows all.
This is true about much in human life that is complex. It is certainly true in reagrd to the issues related to Linda, Danny and 3-ABN. I have been, and remain a supporter of Linda and I remain fixed on the position that 3-ABN did not treat her right in a number of ways. But, neither side in this mess is 100% wrong and neither side is 100% right. All parties, of which we are aware, to this saga are human. And humans are never perfect.
I clearly believe that Dr. Walter Thompson made errors in decisions that he made. But, I do not believe that he had malice in making those decisions. He is not the demon that some would make him out to be. In fact, he is a dedicated man who has devoted his life to the Church that he believes in and in working for his Lord. But, he is also wrong in some of the decisions that he has made. Linda is not the person that she is presented by some to be. And, I will even say that Danny is not guilty of everything that has been attributed to him. In my opinion, the suporters of both sides in this mess have falsely accused the other side of wrong, neither side has been perfect.
I have taken a lot of flack for this position. I post here and am accused of sitting on the fence and having splinters in my rear from sliding up and down the fence and not taking a clear position.
I also post on 3-atalk and people there are just as frustrated with me and and accuse me of the same. So, be it. I will live with that. The reality is that in complex situations like this with 3-ABN and the Merikay case no one has the total picture and no one is 100% correct, to include me.
But, I think that God sometimes calls people to take positions and not to wait until they are 100% correct. I do that. Sometimes I am wrong and sometimes I am right.