Thank you, Grat!!! No, you are not stupid! I thought I was because I also have to read Tinka's post several times to get her meaning, and I did very well in English all through school, even helping others with their papers through college, to this day where I proof papers for friends and family all the time.
Fact is, when I first came across one of your posts, Tinka, I asked you if English was your first language and/or where you were from orginally, do you remember that? So, that is why I asked you about the "berry" comment. I really didn't believe you meant for the comment to say what it seemed to say. No need for you to get defensive, I really was giving you the benefit of the doubt.
Oh My My Tinka - I was educated in American Schools, after 3rd grade all Adventist, and I have never heard the English language used in the way you write. Sometimes I have to read what you say two or three times and still don't get what you are trying to say. And I am not stupid!! One of the problems with communicating this way is that you can't see the other persons face. Face to face give you a lot of clues as to what the other person means, is it serious or a joke ect. You may not realize it but you come across, to me at least, as judgmental and like you have a direct line to the Holy Spirit as to what is right and wrong because you have read all of Mrs. Whites writings. A person can not have a conversation of give and take with someone like that.
AS to Mrs. Obama, have you never had a picture of yourself taken that you wished you could destroy? Are you sure that that "@Walmart" picture has not been photo-shopped? I am not a big fan of our President but have always thought of Michelle as a very classy lady. So she doesn't dress like you, is that a crime against humanity?