Let me also add this. I listened to the young man's testimony. It made me sick, as it reminded me of things that happened to me. I will also say that it is only by God's grace that the same thing hasn't happened to TS. When reality finally hits you that you were a sexual abuse victim, all kinds of emotions run through your mind. Anger is one of them. Only God's hand of protection has kept Tommy's victims from doing something similar. It has never crossed my mind personally, but I can't say that for everyone.