Now if it is wrong to ask someone if they have considered accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior, as Bonnie has suggested, then I am sorry for doing so. But somehow I think her criticisms should be leveled at Jack for making false accusations and then refusing to back down or apologize.
Bob, when you asked Jack if he had considered accepting Jesus as Lord and Savior that question carried the clear implication that he needed to consider acceplting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.
In my mind, the majority of spiritually astute people would understand your question as being grounded in your belief that he needed to consider accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior because he had not accepted him as such. Perhaps some would not see it as such?
Of those who would see it as I have suggested many might ask: "Who is Bob judge whether or not Jack has accepted Christ as Lord and Savior?"
By the way, I acknowledge that you have said:
Now if it is wrong to ask someone if they have considered accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior, as Bonnie has suggested, then I am sorry for doing so.
However, that "if" followed by your statement that Bonie's comment should have been directed at Jack and not at you clearly suggests to me that you do not think that you did anything wrong and therefore, I conclude that you do not appear to be sorry for the question that you asked about Jack.
On a second aspect of this: There is a time to ask an individual if they have accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. In my experience, that time comes in a private conversation that occurs in a very personal spiritual encounter between two people. I am not used to that question being asked in a very public manner. As you asked your question in a very public manner I wonder if you had other objectives in mind, other than the salvation of Jack.
You may very well respond with a question to me as to why I am making these comments to you in a public manner? Perhaps you will not? I am publicly responding for a couple of reasons: 1) I have a prior experience of responding to you privately. That did not go well. 2) Due to my prior experience with you I am actually requesting the people reading this thread to consider how they relate to people in the area of spiritual concerns.