My point is that you did know that Clay stated that you divulge the identity of a "member", however, I am almost sure that you understood that he was actually talking about you all "outing" Cindi anywhere on the internet when you knew she wished to remain annonymous.. It makes no difference that she is not a user/member here at AdventTalk, but that she preferred to remain annonymouse regarding this 3ABN situation. If you put her full name out there without her permission, then nomatter what else your post said, the damage was done. Simple.
Since neither Gailon nor I identified Cindi Randall as a member of BSDA, I could but conclude that Clay was referring to outing a member of AT.
Let me repeat: We did not identify her as a member of BSDA in those posts, and no one who read those posts would have concluded that she was a member of BSDA. To my knowledge, the only on AT one who has identified her as a member of BSDA is yourself in this thread.
I just don't have the money to hire a lawyer and let him do all the work. But then, how much money would I need to have?
My post has nothing to do with who represents you in court, but the path you take in defending yourself. Simple question: Will you win the case, but will that path to that victory cause you to lose your soul?
That's a valuable question.
I was referring to your statement about "how it virtually consumes your lives." If I could hire a lawyer, then I wouldn't have to do the work myself, and could think about and do other things.
Regarding the path I take in defending myself, I have decided to be honest for one thing. I realize that some folks would rather us not look into certain relevant topics, but looking into relevant topics that others want to prohibit should not in itself cause one to lose their soul.