hello, Bonnie,
I just love your family loving attitude. Precious are the bonds that bind us to loved ones. And the ideas you have put into practice to show such love to the special ones is inspiring for me.
What my husband's family is like... welll, it best not go public. They are so rich that doing anything for them is like pouring out a well made pot of chili out over the railings of their yacht. We are the bad sheep that aren't really to be fellowshipped with is how we get treated. My family has really dwindle through death.
So my family is the Lord's body. I give and give of time, money, presents and good deeds every week to some one of church local or in the world somewhere.
I am so happy in God for seeing the needs of some get met without them expecting it.
Your Christmas ideas I can't put into personal practice but others reading will most likely get inspired to do for themselves in their families what you have done, I hope.