Former Virginia pastor charged with sexually abusing minors;
SNAP reaches out to parishioners.
Statement by Becky Ianni of Burke, Virginia, Washington, DC/Virginia SNAP director, the Survivors Network of Those Abused by Priests (703 801 6044, SNAPVirginia@cox.net)
We are here today because Tommy Shelton Jr, a former pastor of this church, was charged in March with sexually abusing two children. He pleaded guilty in July to two counts of taking indecent liberties with a child under his supervision.
Last Monday Judge Bellows turned down that plea deal because the documents showed no real remorse and no jail time. The case will be heard in front of the grand jury on December 21st.
Today we want to
•beg anyone who saw, suspected or suffered Shelton’s misdeeds to come forward and get help,
•ask the parents of this church to talk to their children about Shelton and about sex abuse,
•urge Pastor Dryden to reach out to his congregation asking anyone who has been harmed or who has information about harm done to go to the police
It is extremely hard for victims of childhood sexual abuse to come forward. Most victims are in their 40’s or 50’s or older before they are able to speak about what happened to them. These victims are only in their 20’s. I want to thank these two brave victims for finding the courage to come forward. By their actions they have made this community safer.
One of the victims told me” After coming forward to the police about the acts that was forced upon me there has been a great sense of relief. I encourage anyone who has been hurt by this man to come forward and contact the police immediately. We cannot allow him to hurt anymore children.”
We hope the words of this courageous victim will inspire others who may have been harmed by Shelton to come forward so that they can begin to heal and so that this child molester will be brought to justice.
When victims and witnesses speak out children are safer, victims can begin to heal and justice can happen. When victims and witnesses stay silent children continue to be abused and victims continue to live in silence and pain.